026: Connecting The Dots with Sandile E. Hlophe
Sandile Hlophe’s talk gave us a well-rounded view of his life and his journey to where he is now. This enriching talk exposed us to the following:
Learn about as many cultures as you can, because at the end of the day we are all human beings first. It is our humanity that makes us who we are;
Everything that you do and experience matters. It all forms you into the person that you are today. Even the extra-curricular activities you do at High school matter;
Hone in on your skills in whatever way you can. Wherever you are, it doesn’t matter how seemingly small the job is;
Be curious about as much as you can, this will at least open your mind if not new doors;
Your friends will either make you or break you. Surround yourself with equally if not more motivated people
The interview was incredibly insightful for any young person or professional in mapping out their journey. He was even kind enough to share his 6 points from his mentorship programme:
Sandile’s Key Mentorship Points:
1. Planning is the key to success & leadership - in your career & personal life;
2. Develop a vision of what defines you & how you would love to be remembered - this is a broad statement that guides every decision you make and plan that you develop, e.g. "To be the most dependable person, who delivers on all commitments & makes a difference";
3. Learn & know what is important to you - what will you not compromise on no matter what - this will improve your decision making, planning and help you live up to your vision;
4. There is always more than your answer or solution to a problem; think "win-win": this is the theory of abundance in knowledge, money, resources, solutions etc. Learn how to grow the pie for all and make your circle of influence bigger!;
5. Learn to listen and earnestly seek to understand first before being understood - when we listen with the intent to understand, rather than with the intent to reply we begin true communication. This takes humility, kindness & courage not to always be right, even if it means you let the person learn through error;
6. Seek to develop synergy every time; i.e. 1 + 1 = 3. The power of combined solutions and individual ideas are better than one of each! This breeds mutual respect & understanding, the concept of ubuntu. No man is an island;
Bonus lesson 7. Sharpen the saw - by teaching/coaching others, we grow and renew our knowledge and commitment to the 6 lessons. To do this you must take care of your physical health, social/emotional health, mental health & spiritual health - find balance/your zen. This comes with time and age; and is not always in perfect balance. Just be aware and continually strive for balance.
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